If you were often humiliated, abused or belittled in your childhood, there are two ways you become later as an adult:
- You become invulnerable,
- You become masochistic
Since the perpetrators in your childhood were usually your parents, physical or emotional abuse is associated with love, and then when you get older, with sex.
If later you have a problem with authorities, it is also mostly due to the parents and what they did when you were very young.